A life touched when you were only a boy  / Christina (Chrissy) (Raidl) Sears (Elementary Classmate )
When I saw you were gone, I felt heart-sick.  How can that be when I haven't seen you in 17 years?  You were a great person then and from all I've read, even more incredible as you got older.   You were so loved!  You will never be forgotten, even by a girl who only knew you for a short time when you were just a boy.  You were always nice to me and so loyal to all of your friends.  My heart hurts for all of you who were close to him and are in such pain.  What a comfort it is to know how much he was loved in the time he was here.  God Bless you, your family, and friends.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Close

Till Then  / Allen Strainic (Friend)
Lane, our paths only crossed a few times but it doesn't take long
for one to be impressed. Your laid back and quietly reserved demeanor underscored a strength of character that few of us possess. As we chatted on-line, I am still looking forward to our next golf outing, this time 18 at Heaven Knolls. 
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Life will never be the same.....  / Karin Yoder (Friend)
I haven't the words to express the loss that I feel right now... I always knew you would make a wonderful husband and father, how ironic you gave your life so young fathers and husbands would not have to sacrifice thier own.  You are a true Gentlemen Lane - a characteristic that is bitter sweet...You took a piece of my heart with you...I hope you find piece in heaven...I know when it's my time I'll have a friend on the other side.  

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So Much to So Many..  / Bill Porter (Friend)

Lane,

From the moment we first met at Bowling Green I've never met a more perfect gentleman in all my life.  From you throwing me into countless bushes on Wooster street on our way to or from the local drinking establishments to late nights in Old Frazee laughing so hard I needed to do laundry the next day, it was as if we had grown up together.  As everyone who has ever met you has known you were not only a friend but your sense of selflessness has gone unmmatched in my eyes throughout my entire lifetime.  Your demeanor, empathy, and sense of humor is only rivalled by your deep voice that always got the ladies' attention!

The first time my wife Heather met you I was in tears on the drive up as I was trying to get all the stories I could possibly remember out in time before we arrived at the Drapers' house.  You and I both know I didn't get them all out but it really made me realize how good of a friend and person you really are.

As individuals we are all the sum of our friends and family.  Our thoughts, actions and emotions are impacted by these people and continue to shape us as we age.  It is an honor that I can call you a friend and know that you will always be remembered throughout my lifetime.

-Billy P

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This town will never be the same  / Bryant Lieux (friend)
Lane,

      The news of your death ripped my heart out. Your character couldn't keep you out of a soldiers uniform. You had balls of steel and a heart of gold. You will be missed by so many. None of us will leave this world a bigger hero. America is a better place; but, this town will never be the same.

                                                        Bryant & Stacey Lieux

     
       
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A true hero  / Eric Sewell (Friend)

The type of bravery and courage that was exhibited by Lane is very rare.  An individual with his strength provides the blanket of freedom that protects us and the ones we love.    It is through his sacrifice and others like him that my children have the opportunity to live safe and free.  I owe him a debt that is immeasurable.  The true measure of a man is not in his words or thoughts, it is in his actions.  Lane's choice was an unselfish action to take a stand for what he believed in and to protect each and everyone one of us.   He will forever be remembered as a hero. 

To his family, you have not only my condolences and prayers but to know that I was honored to know this man.  He will be greatly missed.

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Your name is on my wall of fame  / Tom Carmon (buddy EC BG )

Lane could hit like a ton of bricks, and loved to compete.  He loved a good time and he loved his family and his friends.  He is the type of guy that would give you the shirt off of his back and then apologize if it didn't fit you right.  I am proud to know him and feel honored that I was on his team. 

Lane was always part of the solution in my mind, never part of the problem. 

When I think of heaven, I fantasize that God lets you re-live your fondest memories.  Some of my most fond memories are at Knights of Columbus field and the practice field next to it.  Lane, save me a "hoot and holler" one-on-one, because I know you are there brother.   

God Bless the Tollett Family

Sincerely,

Tom Carmon 

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Lasting impression  / Jodi DeGroff (Friend)
Lane. While I, like everyone else you touched, try to understand why this has happened and grieve your loss, I feel so fortunate to have met you and am so very proud to be your friend. Thank you for your service to this country - we are all forever indebited to your ultimate sacrifice. The world has lost a friend, a kind soul, a hero - our Lane...you will remain forever in our hearts. Close

A Real American Hero  / Dave Draper (Friend)
Lane,

Words are hard to come by to express my sorrow. You were one of my closest friends and I find it hard to comprehend that we will not meet again in this life.

Our friendship began the instant we met at Bowling Green so many years ago. We were from different worlds, yet had so much in common. The good times were plenty and the memories I will always keep close.

There are two memories that stand out and you loved to bring them up whenever possible. The first is that you defeated me in a game of one on one, and then proceeded to dodge the rematch for the last 14 years.

The second is when I took you to my local tavern in Whitehouse, Oh. They had a band in there that was in need of a harmonica. Of course, you had yours in your pocket, but didn’t want to play. After some liquid persuasion, you took the stage and the rest is history. You walked into the bar as a stranger, but walked out as a local celebrity. After that, I was just “that guy” who was with the Harmonica Man.

Mostly though, I will never forget what a genuine friend you were. Your selflessness is of the most admirable qualities any man could possess. When my son gets to the age that he learns about heroes, it will be you that I tell him about. You are a true American hero Lane. Your sacrifice along with those before you and inevitably those who will follow you are what keep the American Spirit alive. You will never be forgotten by anyone that has had the pleasure of meeting you.

I Love you man and I will miss you dearly,

Until we meet again,

Dave Draper
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In Memory of Lane Tollett  / Lynne &. Todd Good (Friend)

What a sorrowful loss your life is.  The hearts that ache with sadness are too many to fathom.  The impact is profound.  Your softness, kindness and warmth will live in the hearts of myself and everyone else who knew you for lifetimes.  Some remember the attributes of those departed only upon death, you, on the other hand were known for these amazing qualities during life.  You will be dearly missed by so many.  Thankyou for being a genuine person, a hero and a friend.  You touched the lives of everyone who knew you.  We will not forget your legacy.

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To Lane:  / Allison Draper (Friend)

Lane,

My heart and soul ache as I force myself to believe that you are gone.  I am so deeply saddened to say goodbye and wish I would've known our last visit would be the last time I'd ever see you again.  I'm so proud of you though and I thank you for protecting this great Nation.  Your contribution will make this a better place for our children but it's impossible to see the good in that right now.

I will miss you dearly Lane....I will miss hearing you play your harmonica and will always remember you waking up before anyone else to clean our house.....that always made me laugh.  I will think of you everytime I see my neighbors red Volvo and will remember you taking out her tail light with your truck!

Dave & I really meant it when we told you we were naming our next child after you....She will be named Laney or he will be named Lane.  Please watch down and protect him or her.....

My heart goes out to your family....as I may only feel a piece of the anguish they are experiencing.  We are praying for them - please stand by thier side.

You my friend, will live on forever in everyone's hearts.....a genuine human spirit never dies!  We love you and will miss you dearly.

Your friend,

Allison

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